Proverbs 27:17
As iron sharpens iron, So a man sharpens the countenance of his friend.
As we approach the Easter holiday, most churches are readying themselves for the influx of people who don’t normally attend services. I’ve heard them called “Christers” (Christmas and Easter attendees). Easter is normally the highest attended service of the year. Special music is sung. Drama elements are used. The pastor normally packs as much as possible into the sermon, because let’s face it: Easter service is the only Jesus some people will see or hear until next year. In an earlier post, we talked about guilt vs conviction, and I believe guilt is the major factor keeping people out of church, but whose fault is that? Does the church have to shoulder some of the blame? Does it even matter if you attend regularly?
When it comes to guilt, there is enough … uh, guilt I guess… to go around. The enemy of our soul works overtime to ensure that we feel the condemnation of every act we commit. Our conscience uses this flood of guilt brought on by Satan to make us feel even worse. Then of course there are “church folks”. Some are well meaning, some are downright vicious, but either way, they can slice and dice Christians and non-believers alike with their looks, attitudes, or even flat-out rude words. The term I hear most when listening to people defend their absenteeism at church is “hypocrite”.
“Too many hypocrites at that church.”
“That pastor is a hypocrite.”
“I see those people around town and how they act. They are all hypocrites!”
I get it. Some church people need a real lesson on how to behave in public. Self-righteousness doesn’t look good on anyone. I will be the first person to admit that many Christians are so “heavenly minded” that they’re no “earthly good”. There is no such thing as a perfect church. Church is a perfect concept made up out of imperfect people. The only inexcusable crime among church folks is thinking that they have arrived at Christ-like perfection. When this attitude becomes too common in the church as a whole, we have then lost our ability to relate to anyone. Does this attitude exist? Sure. Is it a good enough reason to skip church or organized religion in general? Absolutely not!
From the very beginning of time, God recognized that man is in need of relationship. Marriage may have been the first relationship, but it isn’t the only one that God wants us to seek. Have you ever seen someone who had an entire change of personality after having a child or getting married? They may have been a downright scoundrel, but the difference is now night and day. You’ll hear people say “Well, I guess being a daddy or a mommy has changed them.” This sentiment is correct, even if it’s misunderstood. What has really changed that person is the elimination of selfishness in their life. They are now putting someone else’s needs above or at least equal to their own. That is what relationship does for us; it works the selfishness out of us.
God established the church in the New Testament, and He hasn’t changed His mind on its importance now. The local church provides us with relationship with fellow believers that create community, strength, and support. As the scripture above declares: iron sharpens iron. We have to have other people to rub up against to keep our edges sharp and useful. A dull knife is not effective. Sometimes there will be friction. There may even be sparks. But as we stay in relationship with other believers, we become that much more effective.
There is nothing wrong with getting your church at home… if you are UNABLE to be there in person. There are some wonderful television ministries that are anointed and powerful. My church live streams our Sunday service on the Internet and I think that is wonderful. You can receive poignant and timely revelations from these outlets. However, God has a very difficult time using us to bless His people if you aren’t present to be used. How many opportunities to be a blessing to people, or to encourage people are we missing out on if we are only interested in getting our blessing? The “us 4 and no more” attitude is not biblical or helpful. People are God’s number one priority; shouldn’t they be ours too?
And if the practical side of it isn’t enough for us, there is the command in the Bible. Hebrews 10:25 reads, “not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching.” God has always intended us to meet together for fellowship, encouragement, support and for the sake of obedience. Is attending a local church required for salvation? No. But to argue the point is indicating what the condition of our heart is. God makes it clear that He desires His church to be a community.
John 14:15
“If you love Me, keep My commandments.’